What this test measures
Correct and incorrect answers indicate knowledge of the concepts in this practice. They do not establish a trait profile, diagnosis or job fit.
- A specific request is easier to understand than a judgment about someone's character. Say what happened and what you would like next.
- A boundary states what you will do or participate in. It is different from trying to control another person's feelings or friendships.
- Attachment labels are a way to discuss patterns, not a diagnosis delivered by this quiz. A few answers cannot establish your own attachment style.
| Category | Questions in bank | What it covers |
|---|---|---|
| Attachment | 9 | Bowlby and Ainsworth, the four adult styles, and how early bonds shape later ones. |
| Communication | 8 | Repair attempts, the patterns Gottman identified as predictive, and the love languages model. |
| Compatibility | 8 | What actually predicts relationship stability, and the popular beliefs that do not. |
| Boundaries | 5 | Where autonomy and closeness meet, and what healthy limit-setting looks like. |
A worked example
How could 'You never listen' become a more specific request?
- Name the event: 'When I was explaining my plan, the topic changed.'
- Name what you want: 'Could I finish, and then hear your thoughts?'
- Leave room for the other person to respond. Specific wording can make a conversation clearer; it does not guarantee a particular outcome.
How your score is calculated
Correct and incorrect answers indicate knowledge of the concepts in this practice. They do not establish a trait profile, diagnosis or job fit.
The existing timed assessments use a limited question bank and a site-defined scoring curve. Their IQ-style numbers and percentile displays are illustrative estimates, not norms established from a representative validation study. We have not established clinical validity for these assessments.
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The existing timed assessments use a limited question bank and a site-defined scoring curve. Their IQ-style numbers and percentile displays are illustrative estimates, not norms established from a representative validation study. We have not established clinical validity for these assessments.
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